Set your boundaries, stop giving up your power and voice, and learn how to choose the best for you AND others.
Tell me if you can relate:
What if you could:
If anything you read so far has struck a chord, it's because I have been where you are right now.
In my corporate career, I had over-achieved and people-pleased myself right into the position of Senior VP of Human Resources. I was making it all happen and my bosses loved me!
However, I always felt the need to control the situation to make sure I kept up that image, which led me to neglect my needs. I wasn't always focused on the things that truly mattered to me.
It showed up big time in my personal relationships, too, which left me feeling unfulfilled, lonely, and resentful. I was so used to "getting it done" at work by striving and proving, that it's what I did in my personal life, too. Needless to say, it didn't work, and I couldn't put my finger on exactly why...
I started working on myself and reconnecting to who I truly was. I made my self-development a priority. And became more real and vulnerable at work. I realized that my work environment was not separate from who I was, and I started showing up full blast embracing my vulnerability.
I was nervous at first, because well, being the head of HR wasn't exactly modeled as a place to be vulnerable. It was more about handbooks, rules and guidelines - but when I started to put the HUMAN back in HUMAN RESOURCES everything shifted. The more I interacted with staff and managers this way, the more they responded. It was so profound that I made the decision to leave my corporate gig, at the height of my career, to start my own business in order to support more people.
Then something strange happened: I started to be more honest, free, and open. When I removed the pressure of people-pleasing and over-extending and showed up more authentically things changed big time. And the crazy thing is, my bosses and co-workers took notice! people leaned in, not away. I was able to create more meaningful connections and relationships in those last few weeks than in the 10+ years in that position.
That's when I knew I was onto something.
Since then, I have been exploring and teaching about how vulnerability, openness, and honesty leads to greater connection and healing. Now I don't have to work nearly as hard to prove myself, and I have the space and energy to focus on the things that are truly important to me. I want the same for you!
After working in Human Resources for my entire career, and healing through my own routine people-pleasing and over-extending, what I've realized is this:
The more you focus on what is important to you, set your boundaries, and communicate those things with vulnerability -- the more you genuinely connect with others, and feel freedom in doing so.
Once you start working on your own transformation and get re-connected to yourself, the rest will fall into place.
Learn how to make decisions that are best for you to create healthy, mutually beneficial relationships with others
Learn how to speak up and ask for what you need for applying healthy boundaries and discernment in your work and life relationships
Stop feeling like a victim of your circumstances and create the life that you've always been dreaming about
Through the course we will have 4 Zoom calls, where we will unpack various benefits of vulnerability and how to invite them into your life. These calls will be group calls, so you will have the benefit of several different perspectives to help you.
In between our calls, you will have the chance to interact with the other participants in a private Facebook group. You can use this space to share your wins, ask for advice, and connect with others as we all grow and transform.
You will get access to the recordings of the calls, so you can review them at your own pace. And in the case that you can't attend a call, it will be recorded so that you can catch up on the material on your own time.
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“Wendy taught me that first, we must be honest with ourselves and that no human can truly reach their full potential without the blessing of their own truth. Her unmatched experience, and insight with all walks of life, allows her to offer a refreshing and positive perspective to almost any situation. I am truly grateful that Wendy came into my life, helped me understand the balance between who we are at work and who are are at home, and why those two really don’t have to be much different.”
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