I see you my sister. Yes YOU!
You've put in the long hours, gone above and beyond to make a difference, sacrificed your time and energy; basically worked your butt off to achieve success in the business world, and still, somehow, managed to keep things together on the homefront. Congratulations! Your hard work has paid off.
You have arrived. You earned the title, and have taken on more responsibilities. You're making good money and you love what you do...So why is it, with all of this success and achievement, you still find yourself asking this question: Why do I still feel unfulfilled; what's missing?
Deep down, your soul is giving you a nudge that can't be ignored, and the real question is:
Are you ready to listen to your heart and experience a real shift?
TELL ME IF YOU CAN RELATE TO THESE FEELINGS:
If so, you are not alone! There is a way out that might surprise you!
I have been in your shoes and have experienced all of these things. At my last Company, I started as a Recruiter and worked my way all the way up to the Senior VP of Human Resources! Pretty awesome right? I had my sh!t together at work. I was taking care of things and making it happen. My management loved the results I got, and I was liked by my team and the employees as I always went above and beyond for them.
Yet, I still had this nagging sense that I could be doing more or better or somehow different. I wanted to truly excel at what I did and although on the outside it all seemed great, on the inside I felt I was falling short. I was keeping busy with proving and doing and accomplishing but I wasn’t focused on the things that truly mattered to me.
I was out of balance.
Meanwhile, at home I found myself, once again, in another failed relationship. My marriage was completely unbalanced. I felt I was taking responsibility for handling everything, running almost entirely on my masculine energy. Love and connection was totally missing, and I could not figure out a way to fix it.
I felt alone, resentful and exhausted.
I was searching for something. My soul, with its infinite wisdom, led me to transformational leaders, then led me to transformational retreats; and I began to reconnect to myself.
My life would never be the same.
I began to tune into my heart and get out of my head. l began to make working on myself a priority, and started making the changes I needed in my personal life (including leaving my marriage). I was surprised by how my work and my home life began to change as I changed. I was able to show up in a different, new way; bringing my whole self to work. And as I began to do the work, the changes were noticeable to me and everyone around me.
I was becoming the real, authentic ME!
HERE'S WHAT I LEARNED...and it might surprise you:
In all these areas of my life, that were totally out of balance, I was actually getting exactly what I was projecting and committed to! (And you are too!) You may want to read that sentence again! All of the challenges and feelings were merely reflecting back to me where I needed to grow, heal, or accept.
The things I thought I most wanted in my life, the things I never had as a child, were a sense of love, safety and certainty and so I developed a coping mechanism of control. I attracted the perfect partner for me to be fully in control of our lives, and I impressed my management by how much I could take control of and accomplish. But it was at a great cost, to me, and those around me. Staying busy, keeping up walls, and ‘performing’ made me feel disconnected and alone.
And the truth was, the thing I REALLY wanted even more than control was to be connected and seen for who I was - the playful, fun, smart, and tremendously loving girl inside, and to have that be enough. I couldn’t get that by hiding behind the walls I had built my entire life to protect me.
The journey has been challenging at times; sometimes taking one step forward and two steps back. But I grew to understand in my heart that everything I experienced, was neither good nor bad, it simply was part of my healing journey. Over time, I have been able to shift the way I show up, and my whole world has changed tremendously.
Once I was able to see what the answer was for me (you have your own unique answer as well), I was able to show up in the world in a whole new way!
By rediscovering ME, I was able to really create an environment of CONTAGIOUS INFLUENCE™ and I did this by learning how to drop into my F-Bomb!
Not that F-Bomb, this one:
Connecting to my FEMININE POWER gave me the gift of healing and connection and created a true sense of real FREEDOM that allowed me to rediscover my sense of playfulness and FUN in all aspects of my personal and work life.
And now I’m on a mission to free others to do the same. I know it is possible for you, and I know the world is desperately craving for this kind of transformation.
SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DISCOVER HOW TO DROP INTO YOUR F-BOMB?
Your authentic self is enough! And...it is completely possible to have all of this and more! You can tap into your feminine energy at work, in fact this type of leadership is being called for now more than ever. Bringing your heart, your vulnerability, and your true vitality to the workplace, is having amazing results for you, your team and the Company. It's a win-win!
You’ll be surprised by how profound your results can be. And not only will you see remarkably better results from yourself and your team tangibly, but the difference this will make in your life and the lives of your colleagues will literally blow you away. A new kind of leadHERship™ that brings a sense of balance to life and work. You will ask yourself can it really be this easy!
AND HERE'S THE WHY:
YOU are more than what you do! In my role as Senior VP of Human Resources I adopted a mantra: We put the HUMAN back in Human Resources! Because, sure, we happen to be coming together to create a result for our Company, but what if it is actually less about the work we DO and more about the interactions and connections we CREATE?
I have come to understand that we are actually brought together, the exact right perfect team at any given time, for the collective personal growth of the individuals on the team. Connection and healing are the divine purpose of every interaction.
In fact, I believe CONNECTION AND HEALING are the real purpose of our work. (Yes, even that one person who you think should probably get a different career…) We are here to free each other. But this is only possible when we heal ourselves.
This one shift can change everything for you. It’s the shift we’ll be making at my upcoming retreat:
BE A CONTAGIOUS INFLUENCER™ How to Drop into your F-Bomb
October 20, 21, 22
Over our 3 days together we’ll focus on three areas:
Connect with your FEMININE POWER to create balance and alignment.
Learn how healing and connection are the real paths to true FREEDOM.
Discover how playfulness and FUN equal the true meaning of success.
What does the price of the retreat cover?
Your registration fee includes 3 days of workshops and activities, all meals. Dinners are NOT included, and neither is your travel to the resort or your room reservation.
How do I register for a room at the resort?
Hang tight, all the info will be sent to you via email after you register!
Do I have to stay at the retreat venue?
Yes! This is an immersive retreat, so staying in the same space as all the other participants is an important part of it. Also, we will be getting together to go out on excursions, so everyone staying at the same place will greatly simplify logistics.
What if I have other questions?
Please feel free to email us at firstname.lastname@example.org! We'll get back to you ASAP.
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